It is always horrible to find out that the person you trusted and love is going out with another person while pretending you are still together.  You need to know that it is not your fault he is cheating and you need to confront your boyfriend.   You have two choices:  You forgive him and give him a second chance or you break up and move on.  If you forgive him, try not to do it so quickly. Make him suffer and know that you are serious about this.  Everybody deserves a second chance, but also know that a cheater is, usually, always a cheater.   Some few change their ways so be aware of that. Once trust is broken is very hard to get it back. So you will probably need couple’s counseling as you both have to talk about your problems and why this is happening.  Good luck!

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